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Generous Living

Sympathy doesn’t exist anymore.  Instead, a “quit your whining” attitude is prevalent.

What happens when somebody vents about school?  About work? About taxes?  About their kids?  We don’t offer encouragement anymore.  Instead, we criticize.

Phrases like Oh, you just wait until… and You have no idea how easy you have it… or That’s the real world for you… are inserted into the conversation when they weren’t even asking for input.

Grandfather:  When I was your age, we had to walk to school bare-footed, uphill both ways in the snow!

Grandson:  …I said I was hungry…

One time I was searching online for any possible way to make $200.  In a hurry.  I was desperate.  I knew my parents didn’t have it, and even if they did, I was adamantly not taking that route.  I didn’t have a job, I was in school, and my refund check was a few weeks away.

The feeling that I recall the most is one of hopelessness.  I tried not to think myself pitiful, but pity overwhelmed me.  I didn’t like it, I certainly didn’t want anyone to know or feel sorry for me, and I was constantly questioning why God wouldn’t just help me and get me out of a hole.  I prayed the whole How long will You hide Your face from me? prayer.

What lesson could I possibly learn from this?  Patience?  I can’t tell the landlord to be patient.  I can’t tell the power company to be patient.  I can’t tell my car to hang on just another second before running out of gas.  What are You telling me?  I need money yesterday.

For the longest time I looked back on those days and wondered why in the world I had to deal with it.  And out of nowhere and all of a sudden, the purpose was revealed to me:


Or empathy.  I don’t really know the difference.  I think sympathy means that I can relate because I’ve been there.  And empathy means to imagine yourself in a certain situation.  Both are good.  But the one I’m talking about is relating to a situation that you’ve been in before.

I hate looking back on those days.  I really do.  I do not like to dwell unless the moment was friendly, and I never want to be in such a situation again for as long as I live.

But someone else will be, regardless of how well-off I am.

Why, especially if I am able to relate to these guys, would I speak to them in a way that suggests they’re alone and weak for not pulling themselves together and just dealing with it?

Why, if I have been through the same crap, would I not offer up encouragement?

Why, if I have the proper resources available, would I not offer some relief?

People have either forgotten, or never knew, how to mourn with those who mourn, how to sympathize!

We all need to take a lesson from my grandmother.  I’m from Alabama, so she’s actually Grandmama.  And she believes that I and my brothers and cousins can do no wrong.  We are perfect “sweet angel boys” in her eyes (and one girl).

Rarely am I able to spend time one-on-one with Grandmama, but when I do I tend to whine and complain about whatever’s going on in my little world.  And she just soaks it all up.  Not once does she say you need to get over it.  Not once does she say just wait until this happens.  Not once does she try to compare her hard times with mine, even though hers were way worse.  Why?  Because she’s been there.  She knows how to sympathize.

Now, I want to take a stand against this apathetic world and present a solution.  We’ve all been through some stuff.  There’s no need to use that stuff to compare and accuse and say You think that’s bad?  You have no idea what I had to deal with.  Instead, offer up your advice.  Offer up your wisdom, your knowledge, your solutions and results.

I know there are many circumstances out there that I don’t know about and I’ll never know about and I’m just an idiot for treading where I’m completely ignorant.

Fine.  I’ll stick with what I know, and since this is a money blog and I’m the author…

Offer up your money.

Why?  Because your feelings, your heart, your intent, and your words mean nothing unless they’re backed by your actions.  And while there are many different resources that we possess that can be useful, money tends to be high on the charts.


In recent years, I hated church.  I got so sick and tired of pastors and preachers asking for money and using it on themselves.  Churches wanted to spend on junk that I thought was a waste of time and money.  They also didn’t have the funds necessary to pay for such nonsense.  They were all in debt and relied on the people of their congregations to “do their part.”  I couldn’t handle it.

I actually studied the tithe myself so that I could get a better Biblical picture of how it was supposed to be used.  Malachi 3:10 was all that churches would use to justify their seduction, and I knew there had to be more to it than that.

I searched for and found significant information that I didn’t know existed.  I used it to form my own opinions about how the church should go about asking for, receiving, and spending money.

I’m not a Bible scholar by any means.  I have no training in Greek or Hebrew or exegetical methods.  I am a simple-minded dingbat with very little knowledge of things beyond the written English translations.  I don’t know anything.

I used the Law of First Mention (what I thought was Abram and Melchizidek), I read all about the Levitical Priests (all throughout Numbers and Leviticus), and I knew all about how Jesus was supposed to have taken the place of those priests in all areas (somewhere in Hebrews).

For these reasons,

Malachi 3:10 just raised too many questions for me.

For starters, what is the storehouse?  Does it apply now?  Are these church buildings the storehouse?  Surely not.  Would the storehouse today be anything that could further the Kingdom of God?

Then, what do I tithe now?  Didn’t it mean crops and produce of the field back in Old Testament times?  What if I don’t have money?  What if I can’t afford to tithe?

And I sought council with men I trusted who I still do believe were in no way trying to lead me astray.

The response was always the same:

Whatever you give up that is over 10% is considered an offering.  Not a tithe.  And your tithe needs to go to your church where you are fed the most.

Well, what if I didn’t have a church?  And even if I do, where is that money going?  It seems like it needs to go to Jesus.  Will it go to pay a person’s salary?  To the new gym they want to build?  What about to missions?  What about to the family down the street who has no running water?  How much money is this church giving away?  10%?  10% of the 10% I gave you would be 1%.  I want 100% of the 10% I gave to make a difference somewhere.

However, I listened.

The first time I decided to tithe was in 2009 when I had a summer job making $7.25 an hour as pretty much a janitor at a middle school working about 20 hours a week.

I didn’t decide until after my first few checks that I should probably be setting aside some money for tithing, so I had to backtrack and figure up what I should have given to begin with.  I added it all up and gave it.  I did this purely out of a sense of obligation.

Then, I realized I messed up and had given way more than 10 percent and I was back to broke when I didn’t need to be.

Before I got married I didn’t want to tithe or give money at all because we seriously did not have a lot of it.  But Smokin’ Hot Wife didn’t like that idea and said we would always give at least 10%.

You got it, Babe.

But the “compromise” was that we would rarely, if ever, give to a church due the reasons listed above.  We would give it to whoever and wherever we thought could make the biggest impact for the Kingdom of God.  Truly, my intentions were pure.  And I really believe God honored it.


I never thought I was wrong in my studies.  I still don’t think I’m completely wrong.  I mean, I’m a below-average nobody and made a Biblical argument.

But the reasons I went about it were wrong; my heart was wrong, and that, I fear, is more harmful than anything.  The best way to sum it up is this:

Each one must give as he has decided in his heart, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.

I sought information about tithing only and failed to focus on the heart of why God was asking for it in the first place.  Ten percent, I thought, was the Biblical theme.  But as I learned much later than I wanted to, the true theme is of our first-fruits and cheerfulness.

This was a point I was missing terribly.

I was giving ten percent of my horrendous income to a church I didn’t even like, who brought in hundreds of thousands of dollars every year with nothing to show for it but a large, cathedral, family-owned and operated business.  I didn’t give because I thought it would please God.  I gave because I thought I could be scolded by men I respected if I didn’t, or because I thought I had to in order to ever be financially stable, or simply because I thought it was just supposed to be done.

Months — maybe years — later, when I learned of the true joy of giving, did I learn what Jesus really wanted us to do:  give freely.

And, sure, I think He did ask that we give up that first portion so that we can declare that God is more than all the riches we could ever hope to gain.  Can it be both?  Obligatory giving does not please God, but setting aside the first-fruits of our labor, knowing that the days of our vaporous specks of life are numbered, will fan into flame a joy-filled way of giving that was intended from the start of all things.


When Jesus said You cannot serve both God and money, what he actually said was God and Mammon.  Mammon is the love of money or the spirit of money.  Many read this and think money is evil, but it wasn’t meant that way.

I hate that we need money.  Really.  I wish it wasn’t a thing.  But it isn’t evil.  The whole concept of trading and bartering would exist whether we had a special currency or not.  It isn’t money that is evil but the spirit that rests on it that most (all) of us have experienced at one point or another.

This is what we cannot serve while serving God.  It is impossible.  We either consciously or subconsciously denounce one and serve the other.  The pull of Mammon manifests itself in many ways and will do so in any way to keep our eyes from being fixed on Christ.  This spirit is the opposite of how Paul described how we should give, freely and cheerfully.

Personally, I feel the pull of Mammon pretty regularly.  If work is slow or someone in my family is sick, I completely forget about the Sole Provider, and I focus on ways that can make things right.  I seek monetary solutions.  I even find security in my bank account.  If I could just have this much money, we’d never had to worry.

In doing so, I do not serve God;  I serve Mammon.


Each one must give what he has decided in his heart.

This means that we should not be irresponsible in giving!  Crazy turn of events, right?  Now, I’m telling some not to give?

Well, in a way, yes.  The Spirit will nudge you now and again to give where you hadn’t planned, but as far as your first-fruits of labor are concerned, plan ahead as to what percentage you will give.

Honestly, I think it’s important that we do not dwell too heavily on 10%.  It is a good marker, and it is, in most cases, very doable.  But I do understand that it isn’t always possible.  I know a wonderful older couple, the same guy who told me Life is hard, then you die, who did not tithe in their young marriage because they couldn’t afford it.  They kept up with all that they owed and gave it when they got it.  The most important thing to understand is that God does not call down curses on the non-givers.  He is gracious, slow to anger, perfect in mercy, all that good stuff.

If He cursed those who didn’t give, why are there millionaires and billionaires around the world who publicly deny the existence of Him?!

Instead, He searches and knows the heart, and if your heart joyfully gives the only 2% that you can afford to give, how much more is your reward than that of the indignant giver of 10 percent!

(Now, if you can give 10%, give it.  Or more.  You’ll thank me one day)

When I got a new job, we bumped our giving percentage up to 11%.  When I finished my training months and started being paid on a per job basis, we went up to 12%.  When Smokin’ Hot Wife got a raise, 13%.  When we were out of debt, 14%.  Different situations allowed us to raise up the amount of money we were able to give.

As of this writing, we set aside 16% of our total income every month to be given in some way, and we really want to give more.

If you are adamant about 10% going to the church, that’s fine, but the best part about raising your percentage is that you now have  the ability to be creative with and help out families that are in need or are trying to make an impact across the world.

For the longest time, we gave to a family who spent all of their time helping children with cancer or to friends in Guatemala who started an orphanage from nothing!  If it wasn’t to them, we would search for a need and try to meet it.  It could be a family need, a friend need, or we’d have to search for a friend of a friend and keep it completely anonymous.

We always found someone or something to give to.

I don’t want you to follow my methods.  I want you to be convicted by the Holy Spirit and mediate on 2 Corinthians 9:7.

So raise it as you will.  Try not to ever lower it.  We haven’t lowered yet.  I hope we never do, but we have been able to avoid it by raising very gradually over time.  I wish I could just throw it on up to 30%, 50%, 80%, but that wouldn’t be wise at this time.

Remember, if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than the unbeliever.

Set a percentage, and make it your very first priority.


Let me be clear; I’m not telling you to shun the Church.  Good churches do exist, and there are leaders who are certainly capable of being responsible stewards.

It took 3 years for the likeness to grow into what it is now, but I LOVE Church of the Highlands, and I’ll promote them for as long as they continue in their ways.

The first characteristic that drew me in was the authenticity of Chris Hodges.  This is a 40,000 member church, so at this point in time, he doesn’t know me and I don’t know him personally.  But his demeanor screamed REAL from the very first time I attended.  And there isn’t much I appreciate more than an authentic person.

But the other thing that drew me in was the way that they deal with money.  Remember, I hated giving money to churches.  This church is not in debt.  AT ALL.  They are extremely cautious and they dream big, they do not purchase anything unless they have the cash readily available to do so, they disclose every single piece of financial information to the public, and they give MILLIONS of dollars away every year.

The 10% to your church is tithe + anything over that is a special offering method that I hated so much has even been used by us at times because of this church.  I don’t want them to change anything about what they do or how they do it.  They give away more money and impact more people than I could ever hope to dream of in a hundred lifetimes.  I have no problem with 10% of my income helping them function.


1.  What do I gain from you giving?


That should make it at least a little bit more interesting for readers.  Why would I go through the trouble of advising you to live generously when I receive no benefit?

Exactly.  That’s the point.  Unless you give it to me, I don’t benefit.  And I’m not in need, so I couldn’t accept it from you.  Therefore, I don’t benefit!

2.  What does God benefit from you giving?

Throughout the scriptures, man and God are in conversation, and, in many cases, man pleads with God for mercy, forgiveness, guidance, deliverance, etc. all for His name’s sake (Psalms 23, 25, 31…. many more).

Obviously, God doesn’t need money.   What would he do with it?  Buy a boat?  An army?  A palace?  A gel pen?  He could at any moment do whatever he wanted to do and not need a single human hand included, not a finger lifted.  So why does he ask it of us?

Because He is a relational God who wants us to be His hands and feet.  No, He doesn’t need us.  He wants us.  He also wants us to live freely and to give freely.  He knows that once you give, you are the true beneficiary, which brings me to the next point.

3.  What do you benefit from giving?

It tends to be a tricky question, because the whole purpose of our giving is to be selfless.  But anyone who does it can tell you it’s just wonderful, and it goes well beyond a sense of accomplishment or a look at me attitude.

God asked for the first tenth in the law, yes.  But the pattern that I notice in the Bible is that He desires mercy, not sacrifice.

Now, when we take that first percentage and set it aside mercifully instead of sacrificially, the spirit of Mammon is bound and no longer has any hold on us.  A declaration is made that we trust in God for our provisions, and we do not need these worldly goods in order to receive peace and joy.  We are denouncing the hold of the love of money on our thoughts and minds.

We are free.  Do not conform.

Gold Credit, Green Credit….

Very recently, a social media friend posted the importance of immediately getting a credit card after college in order to build credit.

I nearly fainted.  I consider this ignorance.  And it’s advice like this that fuels my desire to write about money and to urge people to pursue financial freedom.

I despise this credit score crap.  The better your credit is, the more reliable you have been deemed, and the better interest rates are available.  And if you have poor credit, you have been deemed not so reliable, and the not so good interest rates are available.

How does that make sense?

Sir, your credit score is sitting at 340.  Unfortunately, the best interest rate we can offer is 18%.  Logic says we shouldn’t give you a loan at all, but we will because we care about you.

The reliable spender should not be punished, I should clarify.  But why make the difficult situation more difficult?

However, I need to be clear that I don’t think having a system in place is a terrible idea.  It has its perks for an economy that is in need of nourishment and can’t rely on another government bailout.

If you’re my age-ish, you may remember the housing market crash in 2008.  If you don’t remember, they made a movie about it recently.  Pretty neat.

Before the crash, banks were giving loans to anyone and everyone.  It didn’t matter whether or not they could afford it.  It didn’t matter whether or not they’d ever be paid back.  They just threw the loans around like they were $0.05 pieces of bubble gum that lose their flavor after 2 chews from a Macy’s Day Parade float.  With a big Snoopy balloon.

Then, 2008…

Banks:  Mr. Government… we need your help.  Haha.  You won’t believe what we did… No, it’s worse than that… Yes, that’s right.  We really screwed up.  Well, we can’t really get out this hole without help so can you spot us 10 billion?

Government:  Oh yea that’s fine.  We never budget anyway so we have plenty of money that we can use on whatever we want without angering tax payers at all. Keep your doors open.

Anyway, I hate that we need a system, I hate that people get all worked up over their credit scores and reports, and I hate all the discussion and chatter about it.  It’s mostly thoughtless nonsense, but I hear about it nearly every week, and that’s only because I work from home most of the time and don’t see anyone and don’t watch television much.

I can imagine most of you hear about it daily.  I’m sure of it.  It has obviously secured its hold on us, just as the Devil schemed.

Your credit report is just an overall record of your paying for stuff.  It has detailed information about your debt vs. payoff history.  If you want a more elaborate explanation, you won’t find it here.  Rest assured, it isn’t that important.

What is important, or at least what everyone is so bent out of shape over, is how to improve your personal credit score.

I’ve had people scoff at me for not knowing my credit score.  I let them get to me and I did that free credit score thing.  And I checked it a few times.  And then I was told that every time you check it, it drops!  Every time someone runs your credit, your score drops.


Either no one can tell you why because they don’t know, or someone will tell you a reason why and will believe that it’s a logical, solid system.  Person #2 is making lots of money off of your credit.

I quit concerning myself with my credit score.  I’ve never paid for a credit report on its own.  Why should anyone have to?  It belongs to you.  It’s your history.  It’s your personal stuff.  How can anyone hang on to your private, personal history of anything, regardless of what it is, and demand that you pay for it in order to see it?

Either no one can tell you why because they don’t know, or someone will tell you a reason why and will believe that it’s a logical, solid system.  Person #2 is making lots of money off of your credit.

It obviously doesn’t do any good to check it frequently.  Whenever you go to buy a house and apply for a loan, they will run your credit, charge you for it in closing costs, and give you a copy of the report.  The seller will often times pay the closing costs, depending on your location, situation, and negotiating skills, resulting in a free report for you.

I’ve also had people ridicule me for not getting a credit card.  I never listened to those guys.  I had enough debt to pay off.  I didn’t have time, I thought, to deal with them.

Well, let me hit you with this piece of information:  without getting a credit card and without paying for a credit report, I have excellent credit.

All the banking folk scream at me like Ay!  You need a loan?  I’ll hook you up!

Why?  Because they know I’ll pay it, and they know I’m a safe commission.

Let me tell you how.  While a portion of my advice is to differ from my aforementioned friend, most of my advice is to FRET NOT!

Not what you were looking for?  I figured.  Just keep reading.

I don’t like writing in list form, but all the cool kids are doing it so…


This is a post in itself, and I won’t dwell too deeply for now, but just know that it is not necessary to get a credit card in order to build your credit.  Yes, it can be a decent tool, but it is not, by any means, necessary.

There is ONE way and one way ONLY to use a credit card.  And it is NOT to get one as soon as possible and to spend freely.

Advising someone to get a credit card in order to build credit is like advising someone to go to church in order to go to Heaven.

Sure, it’s a good tool.  But it certainly isn’t so cut and dry.

Particularly, those of you who are in debt, I advise you NOT to get a credit card until you have a better grasp on your finances.  Then, you can read my future post about how to go about choosing the right card, using it properly, and getting free money with it.

This will upset the man.  Because the man wants your money.  But he can’t have it.

Bottom line:  you do not need a credit card in order to build credit.


No, don’t spend money you don’t have just so you can have cool stuff.  But many places will offer 0% financing for a certain period of time on certain things.

I’m basing this idea solely on the assumption that you will not go out and buy a television with your loan money.  Please don’t do that.

If and only if you have a bit of spare money, and you want a new flat screen or you need a new dryer, dishwasher, face-lift, etc., find out how many months you can pay with no interest and subtract 1.

For instance, say you spend $600 on a 50″ flat screen after taxes and all, and you have no interest for 12 months.  Subtract a month.  Then divide your total price by the number of months.

600 ÷ 11 =  $54.55.  Always round up to the next dollar,  $55.  This is your minimum payment every month.  And if you pay this exact amount for 10 months, your 11th month balance will be $50 and you’ll not spend a penny on interest.

The reason I want you to subtract a month is because you won’t get your first statement until about two months after your purchase.  I’m not sure how they are counting.  It should be that your first statement is month #1, but I will not put it by them.

I don’t assume anymore because I got really tired of the response.  For a while, I hypothesized.  And while I realize it is part of the scientific method backed by some data and experience, I still don’t enjoy that it is only considered an educated guess.  Therefore, my new word is deduct.  It’s what Sherlock does.

Now, we will deduct that whoever we bought our flat screen from started counting months before they started sending us statements, and, thus, they’re at month #2.  I have not tested this process, and I won’t.  If this method ends up paying off the product a month earlier than it would accrue interest, we’ve lost nothing.  Just do it.

The reason we are setting up our own minimum payment is because whoever you bought from will set you up a much smaller monthly payment so that you will continue paying into interest after your 12 months are up.

Now, there are a few places who will only offer these interest free purchases if you purchase via credit card.  Their credit card.

Again, I warn you against credit cards, but if you follow the method above and ONLY have a balance on the card when paying off a non-interest accruing purchase, you’ll be fine.

[Aside from that type of purchase, NEVER keep a balance on a department store credit card.  They will eat you alive and smile while they do it.  Every store has them, and every store paints a pretty picture.  If you know how to use a credit card (there’s only one way) and you are able to juggle a hundred different ones, be my guest.  I don’t particularly enjoy focusing on so many.  And I don’t recommend it.  Lots of stuff to forget.]

These types of payments WILL build your credit.  Don’t rush.  This is a marathon, not a sprint.

I hate that analogy… running sucks.

And another thing about these purchases…


I’m referring to purchases that are attainable, obviously.

I don’t mean save up $150,000 before you buy a house.  I don’t mean save up $20,000 before you buy a car.

What I mean is, if you want a $600 television, but you also want to finance it (interest free), I would advise that you have $600 readily available at any time so that you can pay it off at a moment’s notice.  That number will decrease every month, but still have the money ready.

Now, I understand this isn’t always possible.  But if it isn’t, make sure the purchase you’re making is not a 60″ plasma.  Maybe buy a much needed mattress instead which, in my and the general public’s opinion, is a very necessary investment.

If you have the money to pay cash on your vehicles and homes, you likely aren’t reading this.  But you guys would be surprised how many rich people don’t have their funds together.  They’re always broke and have their money wrapped up in other junk because they listened to too many people tell them they needed to have all this stuff and to build their credit and to invest in the future and to have a retirement and life insurance plan and now their monthly bills outweigh their income.

It would be wonderful to pay cash for everything.  The fact is, it isn’t possible for the vast majority.  But what do you need?  Up to this point in my life, college, a house, and a vehicle are the only things worth borrowing money for.  And even then after much thought and consideration.

No, having the cash and saving it will not improve your credit.  It is just a surefire way to make sure your credit doesn’t get worse by suddenly being unable to pay off a TV.  But setting up an interest free payment on something will show the score keepers that you did have a debt and you did pay it off.  It will build your credit.


If you have student loan debt, there are several options available to have them forgiven after a certain period of time.  There are likely more options on their way.

I’m certainly not against loan forgiveness.  As I’ve said before, the motives behind human acts are pure.  And Sallie Mae can afford to forgive some stuff, I promise.

However, when I was paying back my loans and was told of the different ways to have them forgiven, I really thought it was more work than I wanted to do.  I also had a sort of sense of responsibility to pay it all back and have nothing left hanging over me, as if Sallie would one day show up at my doorstep and say Hey.  Remember that time…..

But forget student loans.

Let’s focus on your other debt that has no chance of being forgiven.  The credit card folks are relentless.  No grace there.  Mortgage?  Gotta pay for that.  Auto loan?  They want their money.

The worst thing you can do for your credit or your sanity  prior to paying off loans is to obtain more loans.

If you have a loan accruing interest, and you have the cash to pay it off, PAY IT OFF.  This came up with Ned recently.  He’d heard that paying it off immediately will have a negative impact on credit.  I’m not saying it doesn’t.  But even if it does it isn’t as bad as paying interest.  Interest is not your friend.  Ever.

If you want to see a prime example of what not to do, look no further than our beloved federal government.  It seems their idea of eliminating debt is to spend more money, or, as I like to call it, pure stupidity.

First of all, quit using your credit card.  Second, pay it off way quicker than what they’re asking you to do.  If they had it their way, you’d never pay it off.  When you come out of debt, your credit score will rise.


This is one that’s so overlooked it isn’t even funny.  There are so many utilities that we rely on:  water, sewage, gas, power.  Even if you rent you still usually have to get these set up in your name.

Well, set ’em up in your name.  Always pay on time.  Always pay the full balance due.

As a matter of fact, pay early to ensure your payment isn’t lost (which rarely is the case with all the online stuff these days).

If you are late or you underpay, your credit is affected (effected?  Never have known the difference).  And said effects are negative.

I happen to know for certain that there are specific companies who will reward you for paying all of your other bills on time.  When I switched our auto insurance from one company to another and they saved me $60/month, I asked how in the world they were able to do that for the exact same coverage.

Paraphrase:  Ya credit real good, man.  Ya pay ya bills on time.

I really cannot stress the importance of not being late on a payment.  Not to mention late fees and penalties and the like.  Before long you owe double what you paid last year at this time!

Do I need to remind you to budget?

Budget, good.  Late, bad.

Don’t make them come looking for you.  They’ll bring the cops and all.  They might bust your door down, and you can’t afford new hinges.

I’ve read that if collections gets a hold of one of your bills, it stays on your record for 7 years.  So obviously we don’t want to go there.  Just pay it.  If you’re already late, get current ASAP.

Important note:  ASAP is an acronym for as soon as possible.


You can still go to the bank.  You can deposit checks and continue your weekly transactions and withdraw some dollars and such.

What I mean is avoid the loan officer banter.

I’m sure these guys are good people for the most part.  I’m sure they don’t intend to harm anyone.  But just think about their job for a minute.

They are paid a modest to moderate base salary with bonuses and raises based on commission.  That means that the more they sale, the more they make.  And there’s nothing really horribly wrong with that.

Other work environments are run the same way.  Pops has his own bike shop.  Do you think he’s going to make any money if no bikes show up for repair and maintenance?

My job is even set up to be paid as you complete jobs.  I don’t have to find my own work or convince people to buy my product, but it’s still based on performance.

As a matter of fact, I would prefer this method as a business owner.  If you want to get the most out of your employees, tell them if they do not work, they do not get paid.  You’ll have the best staff on the planet.

However, this method does have a flaw, and to know the flaw is to simply put yourself in the position of the loan officer.

A man walks into the bank to dispute a charge on his account that he did not authorize.  After you have settled the matter, you remember your training and ask him if he is interested in a credit card with your bank.

Now,  do you really think it’s beneficial for the man to get a credit card?  Do you really have this man’s best interests in mind?

You’re only doing your job, right?  (I hate that excuse, by the way.  So were the Nazis).

This is the problem:  the loan officer wants/needs to make more money, and he will do so by making a sale.  I can’t fault him for that.  If I was forced to have his job, I would do whatever I had to do in order to provide for my family.  I honestly wouldn’t care if the guy got a credit card and couldn’t pay it or racked up loads of debt.

I got my commission.  I’m happy.

And that’s why you avoid them until you’re ready for a house or car loan.  They can and will be helpful when the time is right.  But I wouldn’t go near them for advice on how to get out of debt or how to build credit.  For these purposes, they are our enemies.  They want what is best for them and their employer.

If you follow these guidelines, I guarantee you will have decent credit.  It’s after we’ve experienced financial freedom that we can focus on getting the good credit.  It’s just crucial to understand that decent credit is good enough.

No one will deny you a loan.  And really, we want to avoid loans altogether if we can.  So if you have a house and a car, you’re sitting in a good spot.

I know things can happen, and it really doesn’t hurt to keep your credit up.  But let’s just be smart about it.  You know why you keep hearing that you need to build your credit?  Because most of the people telling you to do it are the ones making money off of your ignorance!

It’s worth noting that Smokin’ Hot Wife has no credit.  None.  When our loan givers ran our credit for our house, she didn’t even pop up in system.  And you may read that and think

Oh no!  What is she gonna do?

What shall become of her?

Where will she go?

Somebody do something!

Goodness gracious, peeps.  Where Does Your Hope Lie?

You want good credit?  Great!  It can absolutely be beneficial.  But it isn’t the end of the world if you don’t have it.

Hey, my way is proven.  You may follow it and share it if you must.

Do not conform.

P.S.  Merry Thanksgiving!  Eat!